Quiz – I-Messages Work

Question 1 of 6

1. Question

Facts, with opinions

Blame, with observation

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Observation, with blame

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Questions, with silence

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Facts, with opinions

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Question 2 of 6

2. Question

Confusion

Openness

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Anger

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Withdrawal

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Confusion

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Question 3 of 6

3. Question

Ignoring the need

Stating a feeling

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Assigning fault

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Raising your voice

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Ignoring the need

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Question 4 of 6

4. Question

Blame over facts

Connection over conflict

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Winning over understanding

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Speed over clarity

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Blame over facts

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Question 5 of 6

5. Question

Match each I-message step to its meaning.

Sort elements

Describe the facts you noticed
Name your emotion
Say what matters to you
Ask for a specific action

Observation

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Feeling

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Request

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Question 6 of 6

6. Question

Fill in the blanks.

The four-step I-message names an Fill in the blank 1 of 4 , a Fill in the blank 2 of 4 , an underlying Fill in the blank 3 of 4 , and a clear Fill in the blank 4 of 4 .